Spinster’s Guide® to Not Finding Your Lid and Still Pursuing a Life Well-Lived

Dearest Reader,

After months of soul-searching, I’m realizing The Spinster’s Guide® to Dating moniker does not really fit anymore.  My time on this planet is limited and searching for that special someone takes a lot of time and energy.  Is this how I want to spend my remaining years?

An old adage reads:  There is a lid for every pot. It means there is someone for everybody.  But what happens if you don’t find your lid?  What happens if you don’t find the yang for your yin or Prince Charming never arrives?! Do you wonder the world looking?  Do you die unhappy and alone?  No.  Life is still great and full of surprises.  It’s just going to look different from what you expected.  
 
As a result of this new world view, I have decided to change my website from The Spinster’s Guide® to Dating to Spinster’s Guide®.  This new site will be dedicated to women who have not found their lid and are pursuing lives well-lived.

I’m so excited about this change! There are so many areas to explore:  hosteling in Europe, traveling alone, designing the perfect Valentine’s Day party for friends, fighting fears (I have a mean case of acrophobia), interviewing single women who are making it happen, giving back in meaningful ways, running for public office, actually creating a life well-lived, etc. etc. etc.  I hope you’ll join me on this new adventure.  Together we can “not find our lid and pursue a life well-lived!”

Love,
M.J.
(New curator of Spinster’s Guide!)

P.S.  Of course, you know what they say about once you stop looking…heh, heh…
P.P.S.  My book The Spinster’s Guide® to Dating is still a lot of fun whether you’re dating or not!